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The Soft Landing: Helping a Staff Member Exit Well

Learn how to navigate staff transitions with clarity and compassion to maintain trust and integrity within your church community by tuning in to our insightful podcast discussion on the Healthy Church Staff podcast.

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Navigating Staff Transitions with Clarity & Compassion

Staff transitions can be a challenging aspect of church leadership. How you handle such a transition speaks volumes about your leadership, culture, and church. Our recent discussion on the Healthy Church Staff podcast highlights the importance of providing compassionate offboarding experiences to maintain trust and integrity within your community.

The Importance of Clarity and Care

Firing or letting someone go from a church staff role is far from pleasant. But navigating these unavoidable situations poorly can have long-lasting damages, not only to the individual but to your team and church's morale, affecting your credibility as a leader. The goal of a staff transition should always be in line with two pillars — clarity and care.

Understanding Compassionate Offboarding

When offboarding staff, clear communication on why it's happening is as critical as showing care for how it's communicated and what support will be provided. Churches often vacillate between overbearing compassion which lacks clarity or candid clarity that lacks compassion. Ideally, your offboarding process should strike a balance between both.

Leading with humility and grace employs offering as much notice as possible, providing practical support in terms of resume help and references, and most importantly, ensuring a gracious communication system with the church.

Creating a Soft Landing: The Practical Approach

While letting someone go is undoubtedly painful, it needs to be thoughtful. A soft landing doesn't promise a painless experience, but it does mean offering comprehensive support. This includes transitional coaching — a service that caters to the myriad needs of the offboarding individual like resume preparation, interview coaching, reference checks, negotiating salaries, alongside being a safe, empathetic space during the transition.

These supportive steps ensure the church staff member can land safely into their next role. It does, however, require you, the church leader, to take a backseat and let professionals like transitional coaches offer unbiased support.

Offboarding with Kindness: Higher Ground

Remember, people remember feelings more than words. Thus, a compassionate offboarding process is essential. Letting someone go with kindness is not a sign of weakness — it's an epitome of strength, demonstrating what mature, Jesus-shaped leadership looks like.

Interested in learning more about creating a soft landing during a staff transition? Tune in to our detailed conversation on the podcast to understand how to navigate these touchy waters with care, clarity and ensure a successful onward journey for your church staff member.

Todd Rhoades

Todd Rhoades

Todd has invested over 30 years in serving churches, having served as a worship pastor for over 15 years, a church elder for more than a decade, and in various ministry leadership roles in both the business and non-profit sectors. As the original founder and developer of ChurchStaffing.com, Todd fundamentally changed the way thousands of churches search for pastors and staff on the internet. Todd is a graduate of Cedarville University, and lives in Bryan, OH with his wife, Dawn.

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