Dispelling the Myth of the Perfect Calling
The concept of a 'calling' in ministry often carries a lot of weight, causing pastors and church staff to constantly question their career decisions and ask, "Am I where God wants me to be?" Today, we debunk the myth of the 'perfect calling' and propose a healthier perspective on interpreting and answering your call to ministry.
Chasing After the “Perfect” Calling
Many pastors grow up with the belief that God's calling is restricted to one specific role, in one exact location, with one predetermined outcome. This perception can nurture fear over missing out on God's plan, adding significant mental and emotional pressure. What if we've overcomplicated the concept of calling?
A Broader Perspective on Ministry Calling
Contrary to the popular narrative, scriptures paint the calling as a broader concept. It's not always about serving in one particular role or geographic location, but about serving people, leading with integrity, and using your gifts for the kingdom of God.
The Evolution of Calling
Your perception of your calling matures and evolves with you. The calling you felt when you were 22 could be vastly different from what you sense at 42. This does not mean you've gotten it wrong, instead, it shows you are growing and God's work within you is progressing. Calling isn't always discovered all at once; it is often built over time, decision by decision, cultivated by daily obedience to God.
A New Filter for Calling
A transformable approach could be filtering new opportunities through obedience rather than a sense of predestined perfection. Ask yourself, "Can I serve God well in this place, with these people, right now?" We must remember that God is not conducting a divine guessing game with us. He invites us to trust Him and move forward in faith.
Final Thoughts
Sometimes the search for exact clarity can disguise underlying fears. We must consider that true calling does not require an unmistakable sign, but genuine surrender.
For more on the topic of dispelling myths around your ministry calling and how to navigate your calling with peace and assurity, tune in to today's Healthy Church Staff Podcast episode. Let's continue the conversation, learning, and growing together.
