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# Leading Your Team with Hope and Reality \[VIDEO\]

It was great to hear from Dan Reiland and Mike Bonem and their thoughts behind leading our church staff teams with hope AND reality.

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It was great to hear from Dan Reiland and Mike Bonem and their thoughts behind leading our church staff teams with hope AND reality. We packed a bunch of valuable information into this webinar that we think you'll find helpful. 

 

**Resources Mentioned in the Webinar**

Mike Bonem:

- Website: [MikeBonem.com](https://mikebonem.com/)
- Author Page: [Mike Bonem Amazon Author Page](https://amzn.to/3cEbfrF)
- Book: [Leading from the Second Chair](https://www.amazon.com/Leading-Second-Chair-Fulfilling-Jossey-Bass-ebook/dp/B008NBZ7J2/ref=as_li_ss_tl?dchild=1&keywords=leading+from+the+second+chair&qid=1587657666&sr=8-1&linkCode=sl1&tag=churchthcom-20&linkId=86f169e5d9311d00b43fb09eca8d3bf8&language=en_US)

Dan Reiland: 

- Website: [DanReiland.com](https://danreiland.com/)
- Author Page: [Dan Reiland Amazon Author Page](https://amzn.to/2XXySqZ) 
- New Book: [Confident Leader!: Become One, Stay One](https://danreiland.com/books/confident-leader/) 

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### [![Matt Steen](https://blog.chemistrystaffing.com/hubfs/IMG_4588.jpg) Matt Steen](https://blog.chemistrystaffing.com/author/matt-steen)

Matt has served the local church for over two decades as a youth pastor, church planter, and executive pastor. Originally from Baltimore, Matt currently lives in Orlando, with his wife Theresa, and has a B.S. in Youth Ministry from Nyack College and an M.Div. and MBA from Baylor University. Certified as an Urban Church Planter Coach by Redeemer City to City and as a StratOp facilitator by the Paterson Center, Matt has made a career of helping churches thrive through intentionality, clarity, and creating healthy cultures. He is convinced that a healthy church is led by a healthy team with great chemistry, and loves partnering with Chemistry’s churches to do great things for the Kingdom.

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