The Silent Dysfunction in Church Staff Meetings
Church staff meetings are a crucial part of fostering a healthy church culture. However, a silent dysfunction is plaguing many congregations with staff meetings often categorized as over-controlled, under-prepared, or downright performative. Let's unlock the silence surrounding this issue and share how to make meetings worthwhile for everyone involved.
Recognizing the Dysfunction
Many church staff dread meetings for three hidden reasons:
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Meetings Are About Reporting, Not Relating: Often, church meetings calorie-cram through calendar items without dedicating time for connection or reflection. However, both staff and the congregation benefit from a blend of purpose and people-focused discussions, rather than simply listing bullet points.
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The Win Isn't Clear: The purpose of meetings should always be explicit - a weekly sync, a vision direction, or a decision-making session. If team members mentally check out because they're unclear of the purpose, then clarity has not been achieved.
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The Real Conversations Happen After the Meeting: If a culture doesn't feel safe for honesty in the room, the honesty will leak out elsewhere creating a negative environment. Discussions should be encouraged during the meeting, not in the hallway after the meeting concludes.
Tips for Effective Church Staff Meetings
To revitalize staff meetings and encourage a productive and healthy church environment, try implementing these tips:
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Start with a "Why": Instead of starting with the agenda items, begin each meeting by clearly stating its purpose.
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Change the Questions: Encourage deeper engagement and discussion by changing your questions. Rather than asking, "What do you have for us?" try, "What's the most important thing we need to tackle today?", or "Where are we stuck?"
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Create a Real Talk Space: Carve out time in your meeting agenda for authentic check-ins. This shifts the energy of meetings towards a more open dialogue.
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End with Actions: Conclude meetings with a clear plan of "who's doing what by when". Avoiding confusion post-meeting drives engagement and ensures everyone leaves with a clear purpose.
Staff meetings should bring clarity, unity, and propel ministry forward, not be a cause for dread amongst the team. If your church staff meetings have felt dry or lifeless lately, know that with a few adjustments, they can become a vital part of building a healthy church culture.
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