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The Gift You Didn’t Want (and Still Wouldn’t Choose)

Embrace a new perspective on gratitude this Thanksgiving by exploring how trials can lead to transformation and growth within your church staff and yourself in this insightful blog post.

Thanksgiving Transformation: Gratitude During the Trials

As we approach Thanksgiving, it's quite natural to count our blessings—the good health, the thriving team, the growing ministry, and those Sundays where everything falls perfectly into place. But this Thanksgiving week, let's flip the script on gratitude. Let's dig into the more difficult, uncomfortable, and even painful times that ultimately lead to significant transformations within our church staff and ourselves.

Discovering Blessings in Disguise

Often, our most transformational instances don't come as readily recognizable blessings. In fact, they often take the form of burdens. The Bible is filled with such examples—Joseph being betrayed and sold but later realizing God's intentions for good, or Paul's thorn in the flesh that illustrates how God's grace is sufficient, and His power is perfected in our weakness. Even Jesus's experience of Gethsemane challenged the conventional wisdom of what we ask and what we ultimately receive.

The Tough Road to Gratitude and Transformation

Many of us have gone through seasons where it seemed God gave us the opposite of what we asked for—times that felt like dead ends. Yet, if we look back, we'll see these experiences often form our character, shape our perspectives, and deepen our empathy—the lessons that we wouldn't trade for anything in the world.

So even if this year didn't turn out as you planned, it's worth pondering if this was exactly what God intended. Not as punishment, but as a lesson to deepen, strengthen, and build something unbreakable within you.

An Invitation to Trust and Give Thanks

As a practical challenge this Thanksgiving, don't just express gratitude for things you like. Be thankful for experiences God is currently using to shape you—the painful gifts that are presently moulding you. What if the present pain is not a detour but a transformative path towards a better version of you?

Consider writing a short prayer of Thanksgiving for something currently unresolved in your life. Let that be an honest act of trust and thanksgiving this week. If you'd like to share these transformative experiences, or if you find solace in true stories of resilience, tune in to the Healthy Church Staff Podcast for more insights.

The true beauty of this season lies not just in the peace we enjoy, but also in the pain that shapes us. Let's embrace this perspective of gratitude during Thanksgiving, knowing that our trials are not mere stumbling blocks, but stepping stones leading us to growth and transformation.

Todd Rhoades

Todd Rhoades

Todd has invested over 30 years in serving churches, having served as a worship pastor for over 15 years, a church elder for more than a decade, and in various ministry leadership roles in both the business and non-profit sectors. As the original founder and developer of ChurchStaffing.com, Todd fundamentally changed the way thousands of churches search for pastors and staff on the internet. Todd is a graduate of Cedarville University, and lives in Bryan, OH with his wife, Dawn.

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