Over the last few days two different stories have gotten me thinking about the teams we lead and the importance of an environment that encourages people to be honest about what they are seeing:
I am becoming more and more convinced that one of the marks of a great leader is their willingness to hear bad news without shooting the messenger.
Unfortunately, many of our teams are terrified of admitting that all is not well, identifying failures, or discussing the elephant in the room. This may make us more comfortable in the short-run, but it dooms our ministry in the long-run.
At the end of the Chernobyl mini-series, it was suggested that Mikhail Gorbachev pointed to the incident as the beginning of the end of the Soviet Union. The fear of telling inconvenient truths was the cancer that brought down an empire.
How many of our teammates are afraid to tell an inconvenient truth?
There is a popular meme floating around social media these days, a quote from Andy Stanley:
Leaders who refuse to listen will eventually be surrounded by people who have nothing significant to say.
This is a case of a pithy, shareable quote carrying a significant amount of leadership wisdom. If you are a senior leader, especially in a church, ask yourself these three questions:
Developing a healthy team that values honesty, vulnerability, and feedback begins with our ability to model this same behavior. The myth of the infallible leader who knows all the answers is just that: a myth. Leading in this manner leads to unhealth, dysfunction, and a dying church.